When someone is in your life for a REASON. It is usually to meet a need you have expressed. They have come to assist you through a difficulty, to provide you with guidance and support, to aid you physically, emotionally, or spiritually. They may seem like a godsend, and they are! They are there for the reason you need them to be. Then, without any wrongdoing on your part, or at an inconvenient time, this person will say or do something to bring the relationship to an end. Sometimes they die. Sometimes they walk away. Sometimes they act up and force you to take a stand. What we must realize is that our need has been met, our desire fulfilled, their work is done. The prayer you sent up has been answered. And now it is time to move on.
Then people come into your life for a SEASON. Because your turn has come to share, grow, or learn. They bring you an experience of peace, or make you laugh. They may teach you something you have never done. They usually give you an unbelievable amount of joy. Believe it! It is real! But, only for a season.
LIFETIME relationships teach you lifetime lessons: things you must build upon in order to have a solid emotional foundation. Your job is to accept the lesson, love the person, and put what you have learned to use in all other relationships and areas of your life. It is said that love is blind but friendship is clairvoyant.
-(taken from an inspiring email from a friend)-
All my life, i've meet a lot of different people. Some i thought would be my Reason, some my Season, and some my Lifetime. Some people was there for a Reason, then it grew into a Season, and ended for a Lifetime. But some other might there only for a Reason or Season to then fade away. Most of the time we questioned whether he/she would be our Lifetime or not. We expect to be so, but not rarely we end up in disappointment. Person that we thought would be out Lifetime was proven to be only our Season or even less. It broke our hearts, hurt the feeling, and makes a trauma to start believing and expecting for any lifetime.
But eveything always happen for a good cause. All makes us grow stronger, mature, and wise. There's a lot of lost as there's a lot more to gain that follow one another. Now that i have realized the Reason, Season, and Lifetime in my life, i felt so much blessed and wish everything would end up be my Lifetime.
-for my (old and the best) friends who always give me concious and be my precious-
-for my (new and the best) friends who has coloured my life, so pity that i didn't meet you sooner to share all the joy -
* Posted by 3k4 @ 7:09 AM *
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