The ideal one should consist all of those. But unfortunately not everyone is lucky enough to have such a perfect relationship. And when it comes to choose, the choice would pretty much depend on many circumstances, and one’s willingness to sacrifice. The choice would also likely to change over time, over age, and over one’s period of life.

So, should we take the first rather than a latter, or is it the latter than the first? The answer is to be defined by each and every one his/her self.